“But in my mind, I was like, ‘I’m drinking for them, not myself,’” Spelling — who is mom to five children: Liam, 17, Stella, 16, Hattie, 13, Finn, 12, and Beau, 8, with ex Dean McDermott — said. Spelling recently confessed she even became suspicious of McDermott, 58, spiking her ginger ale.